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Hello , I see it so difficult to Asia to makes friendships or relationship with black girls why that ?

Of course my tips are useful... Not only to white or black girls, to anyone.

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Luna azul wrote:
Ohhh hahaha ok i see ur tips are useful

Yes, there are few with a solid relationship in fullness. Not only is the attraction, it is also compatibility, preference whether in essence personality, similarities or internal growth.
I have analyzed the thoughts and mentality of several known Oriental Asians; They are not all, however many times Asian men and other cultural races just want to experiment, to sleep with black women, but they have never considered relationships or marriage as a priority. There is a notable distinction between having a fetish for black women and having genuine love for black women.
For them it is their loss. For you, it is a life experience to be strong, flexible, optimistic and beautiful in your inner essence.
You must not give up, you will find the right guy with the time.. Let everything flow in due time.

Hi. I'm Australian born Chinese. To give context, I was raised in a predominantly middle upper class gentrified white area in Melbourne (which is a very multicultral city).

In terms of friendships they really don't care what race you are - no one does in Melbourne. As for relationships/attraction I find asians tend to not date blacks/indians (yes I know india is part of asia) and I would actually say confidently it's extremely rare in Australia and probably most western countries. A large contributing factor is for some reason asian parents always want their kids to marry someone asian/white, even my family have expressed this sentiment before.

I'm not sure if that's what you'd like to hear but there you go, don't be discouraged

I've dated a black girl and fancy the pants off a mixed girl at work (Mix of black and white).

In regards to Midech's comments. Yes I agree. I've lived in a few places across south England and even in cosmopolitan areas with a healthy mix of people I rarely see any mix of 2 different ethnicities that isn't with a white. Maybe only one couple every 100? At a guess.
Would be interesting to see worldwide distribution.

I do think it's getting better though, very very slowly

Yes, there are few in a stable and solid relationship with black women. It's not only interest, chemistry, attraction, also influences a lot, compatibility, preference, selectivity whether in essence, personality, similarities or internal growth. I have analyzed the thoughts, expectations, and mentality of several friends and acquaintances Oriental Asians ; They are not all, however, many times Asian men and other cultural races only see options, want to experiment, sleep with black women, but have never considered relationships (friendly / romantic) or marriage as a priority. Honestly patrilineal lineage, filial piety, expectations and economic level are vital, and will remain an issue irremediably mixed with love, friendship among other reasons, because it is closely related to the educational level, professionalism that certainly has a lot to say, when It is about finding a decisive partner for forming family and have social stability.
Western girls (Black / White) can be a highly demanded profile by a more cosmopolitan part of Chinese men, and less influenced by moral and traditional conservative ethics. Although I have met some couples formed by Western Black women and Chinese men, the truth is that this is a much less frequent type of link, since there are several social, family and cultural factors that contribute to repel the possible members of the couple. In this modern, liquid, individualistic, unequal society many multi-ethnic cultures are transcending, increasingly, far from absurd stereotypes, socio-cultural prejudices.
You must not give up, you will find the right guy with the time.. Let everything flow in due time.

midech wrote: A large contributing factor is for some reason asian parents always want their kids to marry someone asian/white, even my family have expressed this sentiment before.

I've noticed when my husband and I get stares, a chunk of them come from elderly asians. I wonder if this could be a reason why, and if they wouldn't have stared if I had been a white girl or at least light skinned.

SugarCookies wrote:

midech wrote: A large contributing factor is for some reason asian parents always want their kids to marry someone asian/white, even my family have expressed this sentiment before.

I've noticed when my husband and I get stares, a chunk of them come from elderly asians. I wonder if this could be a reason why, and if they wouldn't have stared if I had been a white girl or at least light skinned.

Congrats to your marriage did you meet him from this site?

The elder asian mentality is judging but many ethnicities are like that too, only European and American countries are more open minded.

And about the black woman topic, it's a matter of taste, I saw on YouTube plenty couples, saw even an interview in japan, most Japanese men answered they'd date black women.
Many Chinese, koreans Thais don't prefer black women, their culture finds white skin pretty, when I say white, I mean "snow white " white.
I personally think every race has beautiful and ugly people, people should stop thinking everyone's alike lol

StrawberryGirl wrote:

SugarCookies wrote:

midech wrote: A large contributing factor is for some reason asian parents always want their kids to marry someone asian/white, even my family have expressed this sentiment before.

I've noticed when my husband and I get stares, a chunk of them come from elderly asians. I wonder if this could be a reason why, and if they wouldn't have stared if I had been a white girl or at least light skinned.

Congrats to your marriage did you meet him from this site?

The elder asian mentality is judging but many ethnicities are like that too, only European and American countries are more open minded.

And about the black woman topic, it's a matter of taste, I saw on YouTube plenty couples, saw even an interview in japan, most Japanese men answered they'd date black women.
Many Chinese, koreans Thais don't prefer black women, their culture finds white skin pretty, when I say white, I mean "snow white " white.
I personally think every race has beautiful and ugly people, people should stop thinking everyone's alike lol

Beauty in the eye of the beholder. So i agree

I hate to break it to you but asian guys are only interested in honda civic type r's.